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Welcome

I write to make sense of the things we’re not supposed to talk about — the truths that hurt, the silence that harms, and the hope that still matters. Through honest storytelling, I try to turn discomfort into awareness and awareness into action. I believe truth and empathy can coexist — that we can face even the darkest realities without losing our humanity in the process.

About Me

I was born and raised beneath the endless skies of Eastern Montana — a land both tender and unforgiving. The wind here carries stories, and mine began in the quiet corners of hardship. My childhood was shaped by shadows that lingered long after the sun set, but even in the darkest seasons, a small spark of hope refused to die out. I learned early that strength is not always loud; sometimes, it’s simply the act of waking up and trying again.

For years, I wandered through the echoes of the past, searching for meaning in the pain I carried. It wasn’t until I saw myself in my own daughter — outside the same home that held so much of my grief — that I realized healing is not about escape, but about returning to the places that broke you and choosing to see them with new eyes. This blog is my way of telling that story: a story of survival, reflection, and the slow, beautiful work of rebuilding a life from the inside out.

Today, my heart belongs to my two beautiful children — the light that cuts through every storm. They are my reason for challenging the “laxed” way of life that so often lulls this land to sleep. I want them to grow up in a place that values courage over comfort, truth over silence, and love over fear. Through my words, I hope to offer others what I once needed most: a reminder that we are not defined by what hurt us, but by how we rise beyond it.

This is not just my story — it’s a testament to endurance, to grace, and to the quiet revolution of choosing hope.

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Author’s Note

Writing this isn't easy. Silence has weight — and breaking it takes courage. If reading this stirs up pain, confusion, or anger, please know that those feelings are valid. What matters most is what we do next: listen, believe, protect, and heal. If you’ve experienced sexual abuse or assault, you are not alone. In the U.S., you can contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or chat online confidentially at hotline.rainn.orgIf you or someone you know is struggling with sexual thoughts that could cause harm — and wants help before any harm happens — there are confidential, non-judgmental programs that exist for that too. Stop It Now offers private support and guidance for individuals and families at stopitnow.orgEvery statistic in this essay represents a human life. Every silence broken is a step toward safety. Speaking up, seeking help, or even just staying in the conversation can change everything.

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